>>11863623glad to know you don't just want me for my jihans
>>11863668yeah gave me a good raff. the funniest thing to me is that i'm convinced it's just people being obsessed with muh gender identity.
as the article explains in grueling it's less about certain wrods having more male or female connotation but more about some things sounding abrasive and others sounding polite, and those traits just happen to have gender associations.
it's like applying the logic that saying "fuck off cunt" is masculine and "i'd really prefer if you were a bit kinder about this" is feminine