>>23539831They don't want to deal with the possibility of rejection, that feeling is solely for "moids".
They don't actually believe in anything though; they'll crow about gay rights for hours and days but when rejected the first slur out of their mouth is "faggot". They'll blame the phase of the moon or the pattern of the stars before they look inward.
>>23539836This as well. They made this shit a minefield for (you) to navigate, not them. Women want to be perfectly safe and be approached, and nobody is approaching a fortress with high walls and barbed wire and a moat and a minefield, and the reward is a financial expense, a persnickety virago that demands commitment while she's got a full mag of backups in her phone. Nobody is that special.
They'll have to put on their big girl pants and be direct about what and who they want, but that's scary and carries a possibility of failure so they'll never do it.