>>13708074they're only worth as much weight as we give them, but nobody ever gives it the same weight as anyone else so when anyone says they love me i wonder how much. is the the 'would help if i was in trouble' kind, or the 'being around you isn't hopelessly unpleasant to me but push to shove i wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire' kind. i think the overwhelming majority of time people mean the latter when they say they love someone. either that or its to manipulate and frame a situation as something its not.