>>16348553Men need to learn how women actually think and what they actually want and viceversa. It used to be men didn't understand women, but this wasn't an issue because men were in high demand, women were afraid to reach 25 and not be married, promiscuity was looked down upon in both men and women, and even if they were a bit dense, society pushed them to have a certain set of values or at least pretend they did. Nowadays it feels as if nobody has any guidance whatsoever, no role models, no values. Adults look and act like perpetual teenagers trying to figure out what they're supposed to do and they're constantly surrounding themselves with the wrong people that supply them with the wrong advice further perpetuating this cycle of frustration for both men and women. No one seems to have any kind of emotional intelligence. Men because the majority of them can't figure out what to actually do to be attractive, women because they can't figure out how to attract and keep high value men. Men will hang out with other clueless men that will tell them all women want is money, status, or model faces/bodies. Women will hang out with other clueless women that will tell them men only want one thing and they shouldn't let society judge them because they take advantage of it. It feels like almost nobody stops to ask themselves what would a high value human being of the opposite gender actually want and how should they strive to change themselves towards that ideal