>>16492340No one that asks this question actually cares, if you told them short of writing a novel, making a film, or physically putting them through it they would not understand your response either. They'll put everything that happened to you on you as your own responsibility, judge you for it, and move on with their day with a feeling of superiority born of their own ignorance. They don't understand the fortune they have to not think like you and while that is infuriating it is logically understandable.