>>19473594Lol I'm a millennial on the border of Gen X. But I think part of the problem is these guys don't understand the normal evolution of a relationship. Maybe because they've never gotten more than a couple of weeks into one.
Yes, in the beginning a woman is using more of her lizard brain in sizing up potential partners. Pouring your heart out to a 21 year old on your first date is almost always going to end in disaster.
But at the point of marriage a woman isn't going to be evaluating you the same way she did when you first asked her out. Just as you aren't going to immediately write her off for things you might have found unappealing in the beginning. But again, this assumes you have 2 mature adults who aren't sub-100 IQ.