>>2077037i got mine pre-covid and we've been together 7 years, she's not vaxxed and she's loyal to a fault.
if anything nyc is unironically the best dating market in america; 60/40 female to male ratio + a decent chunk of the guys are gay. i think i would still be incel if i lived somewhere else.
>>20770341. isn't entirely her fault; i had 3 hours to decide on a friday and figured it wasn't worth the $500 flight round trip + 2-3 days pto at the time, but then i ran the numbers and realized the biggest difference would be the overtime (lack of it; some of my coworkers doubled their salary and cleared $150-200k living at work. i personally made $70k base + $50k ot last year).
the other question is if its union or non-union. its unironically difficult to get fired from this job unless you really try while down there i might find myself working the ramp or similar if it doesn't work out (or shitcanned for being late or something equally stupid...we still use paper sign in/out sheets ffs)
2. probably <2 years before her company gets bought out and she gets a severance, and desu again she could simply just work remote. she's skilled at her job at least. figure we would try for a child then before we get too old and ends up retarded
3. yeah my biggest issue is a house here is $5k/mo mortgage after $150k down payment in long island (750k 3 bed 2 bath house in massapequa); down there a house is $2600/mo (75k down payment 360k house). the spics don't bother me at all.
the only upside of long island is the schools are some of the best in the country but you pay the property tax to make up for that.
the other factor is her family is all here in nyc, while mine moved down to orlando (mom getting old @ 71y/o + accessibility to childcare if needed is there in either city).
if i had less stability i would be more willing to experiment. aka no relationship, no employment, less pay, etc. at the same time i fucking hate nyc. too crowded.
