>>7941205I mean, why you need to realize is you're just going to have to give some things up if you want to be a good parent. Don't damage your kid, spare no expense, but don't spoil them. Sell your shit and put away for the squirt's college fund, accept that your life should revolve around thinking for your kid's well being. A "hobby" is for people without kids. I hate to say it dude,but unless you want to look like a total loser, and be an actual loser parent, you need to put your kid before everything else. Toys come and go, but you're now responsible for another human being's life. No more toys. Sell your current ones or just chuck them to kick the habit and make sure your kid has a childhood he won't hate, and a parent he'll respect. Don't try to have your cake and eat it too. Be an adult, a real one, not like us here.
