>>58290265because I'm self aware I avoid interacting with women in tournament contexts, unless I really have to (it's a judge, my opponent or someone I met a long time ago). Let alone flirting or anything. It's a minefield between my awkwardness and the community's puritanical wokeness
If I'm horny I just quietly look for escorts when I travel for tourneys. And these retards that actually make money off tournaments consistently should accept they don't stand a chance either, and start doing the same.
I was told by a judge acquaintance a lot of judges actually do that, and even take them to the hotel roomspic related, I found a gorgeous lookalike in Hawaii a few streets north from the Worlds venue
