Nta, but i'm not an anti since i only want what's best for everyone involved, in the context of the dynamic and the established (through writing or talking) goals of this relationship while not neglecting anyone unfairly
If you wish to neglect one or the other you will undoubtably be an anti for eqch of it; but if you struggle internally over this issue, unable to reach a conclusion, then know that you are a true husband who can only ever be wronged in reasoning and morals, not ever in motivation.
If you disagree with this then you automatically become an anti, either towards the dynamic or towards shondo, or towards all of it, as it is for tourists
This reasoning is perfect and with no flaws and if you disagree then you are being retarded.
>>107040457Wrong guy