>>22879634>Elaborate...Well.
Consider the power differences.
When you're the one being adopted he can guilt trip you with a nice range of "you're a guest here" type psychological games.
(You) are helpless because he might get (you) put back into the orphanage if you act out.
If he's the one being adopted it's pressure from your parents gaslighting you into putting up with him.
"Oh he's had a difficult past :)"
"He probably doesn't mean it :)"
"Anonnette you're really overthinking this".