someone sent me a video link few months back about this, does someone have it? it was a male speaking, he used stock photos and talked about how how settling down with a woman all in all is the wrong aporach since for a healthy relationship you should know what you want and dont want and not just settle for an option

it would mean a lot to me finding that video or that channel since he was talking exactly about what was going through me and i would need to work on myself nor more than ever