>>8855828>moved from NY to OHThat's quite a questionable move. I mean, getting out of NY is nice, but going to OH is oh so awful.
There's a saying that once you're there you're stuck there. The cost of living is generally low, and there are jobs available, but the valuable opportunities are slim; getting out financially well off takes a lot of planning. Plus the population is mostly a mashed up mix of rednecks and blacks, opiate addicts, cynics in general, just a ton of unhappy people that spread it around; demotivating everyone from making it anywhere.
Whatever you do, stay connected to that family. Do not neglect them, do not cut ties. You will need them, no doubt about it.