>>8855990I’d like to visit Europe, but any money saved up would have to go towards my dad in Texas, grandparents/cousins in Missouri, great grandma in Tennessee, and my grandparents in North Carolina.
So a lot of money is needed obviously.
I’m fine with having these responsibilities I just wish I could fill them. No one will hire me for general labor because I’m young and short and don’t talk to anyone. So I have to work retail until I finish school and can get some kind of welding position, then just live off the woods and send most of my money to them. The rest go to savings and whatever’s absolutely necessary. But by the time I have that job,my grandparents in NC could be dead, they’re both ill, and their son, my uncle who spent almost 2 decades in prison lives with them with his pit bull and has virtually destroyed their house. This has put a toll on my grandfather as he keeps getting blood clots and the stress doesn’t help. My mom cried in front me to my grandparents about how much it hurt her to see them so angry and down about their situation, but my grandma refuses to kick him out. He might go missing, he has a lot of enemies, I don’t know.
There’s a lot of stress and so little time.
