>>23331583Because there's no reward, no mystique anymore. You know she's done this shit before, with other men, you're not special, and I'm supposed to pretend she's "the one". How the fuck can you be the one when I'm just a number and having to share you with a bunch of other people?
If women want men to approach, they need to make the men feel like the relationship would actually be special, instead of a humiliation ritual.
