>>4264114>he hides his drinking before youthat's a big one, girls. Trust me, you don't want to go there
>he does drugsobvious one, he will drag you down with him
>he takes SSRIsYou won't ever uplift him. He can only do that himself
>he has no jobat least you can work on that, contrary to the previous ones, but if you're nagging it might have opposite effect
>he's fatThat's the ones from the top of my head. Girls, you can't change a man, don't be deluded. He can only change himself. One smart priest told me this: a man marries a women thinking she won't change and a woman marries a man thinking he will change. And they're both wrong.
