>>5572959(imagine this as an emotionally disparing painful scream)
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH *grabs chest*
i know what you mean, but its difficult sometimes to achieve this with a lot of the social stigmas attached to alternative interests. Be careful if you do get into these social circles of thinking that conversation and terms appropriate on here will fly in those contexts. Nothing worse than finding some cool normies that seem nice to accidentally have them convinced you're a bleeding heart racist or too weird to interact with or something.
Just bear in mind, if you achieve 'normalfag' status you'll probably discover that a lot of the problems persist in very similar or exactly the same ways its just that the terminology is different.
aim for decent people, whatever you're interests / activities are it shouldn't actually matter (unless you want some shared interest to talk about).. otherwise you can learn about new things about each other together! can be a lot of fun :D
normie parties are often literally the worst in my opinion but usually quite safe. Just bear in mind some 'normies' aren't normal at all, looks can be decieving! the whole social cliquesk hiearchys involved might not be worth your time
too.. some 'super cool' groups aren't cool, or super at all and might screw you over, Its usually that the group dynamic is appealing. Aim for maturity not normie coolness imo!
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you'll get there! :)