>>5226990OP you only got two options
one is you can accept who you are now, and not worry about what other people think about you, and just do what you wanna do.
if you wanna look good and get chicks and all that crap you gotta get off your ass. "i live in a small apartment" so what? if you want to lose weight it doesn't matter if you're in a mansion in new york or in a cabin in alaska. eat less and workout more and you will lose weight. if you want these things you have to work for them. Things like this are always difficult and seem impossible in the beginning. but if you never get off your ass and even try you'll never succeed. To achieve anything takes work. I hear so many people come up with excuses for why they c an't do it. And usually they are somewhat legitimate. But that doesn't change anything. You have to put in the work. Once you do, things will be better.
