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>Meet a girl on language courses
>We ride back on a train home together after classes twice a week
>Seems like she likes me (touches me, says I am cute, etc)
>One month later I invite her on a date, albeit a little clumsy (I got nervous)
>She refuses and gives me a clue she doesn't want to hear it again
>Painfull, but I move on
>Months go by, we still talk, learn a lot about each other, even went camping together with our classmates
>Later she invited me on a walk in a mall, everything is good, seemed like a date even
>"Ok, there are no girls around anyway, might as well continue courting"
>start slowly courting her again
>she gives me mixed signals, but accepts courting
>Lots of signals, we message each other from time to time
>A lot happens
>I provide emotional support when she asks, I visit her in a cafe (where she spends time before classes) with umbrella when it rains, I give her birthday presents (a silver thingy and a ticket to a shooting range, she wanted to go there once and I offered to go together)
>genuenly worry about her and feel a connection, but sometimes it all feels very one sided, for example she never messaged whether she would visit the cafe or not, despite me asking to do so and I got wet under the rain
>months go by after I gave her the ticket and she starts visiting courses less and less
>she still didn't visit the range with me despite me reminding her several times
>she quits courses
>rarely responds to my messages
>couple months later I attempt again to reestablish connection and give her a New Year's gift and remind her about the range couple of times
>she accepts the gift but makes up lame excuses about the range
>I realise she doesn't want to talk with me and we don't message each other anymore
What was that? I don't mind being rejected as bf or even as just friend, but she didn't even bother to be polite and use my gift as intended. Or am I retarded?
