>>21828789Didnt have parents to give them the direction or lack of motivation to change oneself.
"This is the year i'll get my act together!" and they tell themselves this and tell their family or friends this and they are applauded but the applauds of desire to change is enough of a dopamine rush that they lose the will or they realize the act of improving is too much for them so they give up
At least thats my interpretation based on a few people whom i know to be like this. "I'm 18 im going to go to university to study X, i have a car and will be moving out soon". 10 years later and not only did they not accomplish a single one of their goals, but they don't even have a car.
