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the real black pill is that even if what all the mgtow, incels, etc say is wrong about looks and whatever else, it gets even worse when you consider not just dating or getting laid, but having a marriage that actually lasts to at least see kids raised to adulthood. most men cannot figure out how to actually keep a girl around that long, with divorce rates closing in on 60%, more than a coin flip, and 80% of them initiated by women
even if i become the chad in every aspect, i must also maintain a social circle of appropriate size, and want to go out and drink with people randomly, do all the scheduling, keep her happy with plenty of travel, things you cant even do with kids. the girls dont even want to have kids, because they want to do this.
for me, its not just about getting laid. ive done that plenty in my life. the real black pill is not even being able to have kids unless you marry well below yourself, a girl with nearly no expectation, only because she never got to experience these things to know she wants them. parallel with the reason men want virgins, so they lack the experience to know what they might want out in the world, and want to go get it