>>18240355Imagine your life, your ways of thinking, the personality you've developed, the things you do and care about, etc. all as a steel ball that you're holding in your hands. Over the past few years, that ball has gotten hotter and hotter, to the point it's now uncomfortable to hold. It's only getting hotter and you can see it turning turning red. "IT BURNS!" you cry out to others, "LOOK AT HOW MUCH PAIN IM IN HOLDING THIS!". It becomes almost a source of comfort, a thing you can shove in people's faces in hopes of eliciting sympathy. Drop the ball. There are others nearby that are much cooler that are waiting to be picked up. No more sympathy, you're the one holding on. We're all saying get a new one.