>>2850092No one really finds huge fulfillment in just "making friends". People love having friends who help them accomplish things.
People care about "things" like "ideas", "goals", "beliefs", "feelings". Having people to share positive experiences surrounding those things is great.
Hobbies are typically a "mode" in which you use to fulfill or express ideas/goals/beliefs. i.e. musicians typically are not 100% technical musicians, they want to capture a feeling. Even if they are technical experts, and deeply care about the technical aspects of the music it is going to be tied to a belief/feeling/idea about reaching technical perfection.
You need to find something you care about enough to change it. A lot of people find that one of the strongest motivations is the desire to change things they feel very strongly are wrong and need to be corrected.
