>>14914860True love is of course defined as follows: An attractive/smart girl aged 20-22 that is willing to bear children, raise them responsibly and stay within the family until all children have matured and started their own lives.
How is this obtained? Payment.
A female fitting that description has no incentive, biological or social, to enter that situation free of charge. They won't sell 20 years of their lives for anything short of $50 million, which means that you, the male, require a net worth of at least $100 million. She expects to be compensated up front financially and that there be no confusion about her withdrawing her payment after the children have been raised.
Why? Young attractive females can decide at any moment, whenever they please, to earn a minimum of $1-2mill per year by joining Twitter's escort community. This has been an established, credible and trustworthy decision for many women since 2015.
Women under the age of 30 earn 10x the average income of men under the age of 30, subsequently, any girl that enters a relationship for free is either old, subpar or stupid. Therefore, it can be stated quite soundly that the answer to your question is as follows:
How do you find true love in modern society?
Money.