>>14422503Just, the more physically active I got, the hornier I got. Especially after doing cardio for a couple of weeks. I just....hungered.
One other thing about sex is it's (IMO) super fun to be naked with another person and whatever you get up to is a secret between the two of you. I've always been drawn to other people as a member of a team and having that interaction with another human being is important. Because other people are not me, I'm interested in them and so for me the natural extension of that with a woman is that she's a thing purpose-built to please my body (and mine for hers) AND she's another human being I can make a connection with.
Maybe the word "broken" isn't applicable because that might cause resentment and there no reason to have a negative feeling like that associated with everyone else if sexuality is simply not your thing.
As I said, I'm in my late 40's and I know a number of women who're peri-menoapusal or borderline straight-up menopausal. Sexuality is becoming a more and more abstract concept for them. I recently had an unusual health issue and my sexuality disappeared for like 2-3 weeks. A driving force in my life since I was like 6 or something just disappeared. I changed my diet (I'd been eating a really bad vegan diet unintentionally) and everything came back online.
But during that time didn't "miss" sexuality, except as an intellectual exercise.
So, I guess the main thing is be healthy and do what makes you happy and as long as you're doing those things, you're good to go. Perhaps discuss this with your doctor because on rare occasions there may be things going on with your body which are important to consider and which this response (or lack of) is a symptom.
