>>16142498kek are you the swede anon who posted last week about going to clubs and having a girl dance close to you not talking and then latching onto other uglier men?
I can't tell if it's the language barrier or if you are actually autistic but as someone who has spent hundreds of times (literally) in a similar situation and while still incapable of pulling women as of last week is currently seeing a woman WAY above my league I will give you bullet point pointers.
- You need to be comfortable with yourself first hand. Focus on the easy things like dressing up properly and being clean (haircut, cologne, etc.). Clubs are all about first impression because you can't have any type of real conversation.
- If you're always going to the same spots, don't flirt with the barmaids but be friendly with them.(How are you, good to see you again, thank you, etc.) Dab up the barmen
- Women will NEVER approach you but will put will facilitate the interaction (like coming close to you and by the way you fucked up in your story). In your story you should have asked those girls what they were celebrating just as an ice breaker.
- Don't focus on trying to fuck. Focus on giving a girl your number and wait for them to text you. If they are with friends the proper women won't want to be seen as sluts fucking on the first night plus you will be seen as someone who can control himself instead of just trying to get laid.
- Ironically the prettiest women are sometimes the most in reach. Past a certain age (I'm 30) a lot of the women who never got attention in school are also the ones with high paying careers and have money to spend on themselves (spas, clothes, etc.). Also they are probably working a lot and lonely. After 25 the easy going ones are either literal fat roasties or already knocked up/in relations.
- Don't stand at the same spot all night otherwise you will look creepy. Try to be in the middle of the crowd dancing.
- Remember that if you don't stand out you blend in
