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Not really sure what to make of my newfound self. I'm on month 5 of NoFap and have so much extra motivation and drive, I'm very stoic and am a lot more in control of my emotions and reactions.
The only problem is that I feel like I have less of a libido. But I can't tell if it's that, or that I've made it submit to my dominion. I'm courting this qt at my work and she has a great body, but it is not the urge to fuck her that drives me to interact with her anymore. Now, if I think hard enough about us getting down to it, then my libido will spike up; the surge will come in a quick zap, but then I tame easily tame it again.
I look at her as an actual human being and less of a sexual object, we share emotional headspace, and when that happens, then a libido surge will slightly spark between us. But it doesn't own me anymore.
Is this normal what I'm feeling? Or should I be a lot more hornier and sexually driven?
