>>10724735Women desire men who have power and control. And they want men they fear slightly- my wife likes to unconsciously provoke me sometimes so that a little bit of my rage comes out.
But not too much. They don’t want a shit ton of being controlled (unless I’m bed), of being overpowered, of feeling too much fear.
My wife constantly grabs my biceps, talks about how manly I am compared to anyone else she’s dated (she was never married before me) and how I’m just “such a dude”. She loves that power. She needs that power.
Your wife is testing you on small disagreements and small levels to see if you’re actually a fucking man. Don’t push it too far too fast, but MAN THE FUCK UP.