>>10384648Just saying, as a dude, I want to be sexually objectified. I want to b pressured. I want to be creeped on. Fuck, one of the reasons I sneak into gay bars with my gay friends is because it feels really good to get that kind of attention. My best guess is that women feel it's not socially acceptable them to behave that way. Either it's some weird patriarchy/Puritan bullshit, or women fear that any interest might mean green flag for men to pursue sex too soon. Or both. And just saying, I don't think I've ever heard of a man not appreciating a woman (that they are attracted to) coming on really strong. And even women I wasnt attracted to throwing up some signals it's still appreciated because it can help set up boundaries.
