>>8959164maybe you've been alone a long time? it damages our understanding of what friends even actually are. you don't need to get along perfectly with people to be friends. personality clashes happen with literally every single relationship that ever existed.
maybe you yourself are a people pleaser to the point of it being a negative, where you feel like if you can't just simply mesh completely with someone you'll never be able to get along with them? because your confidence in other people and yourself is gone, liking or disliking someone become absolutes?
does that sound right? i only take pot shots in the dark when it comes to personal advice based on my own experience
