>>11884706If you want to get technical then sure, everything is in the brain. But I was talking about more complex issues, not just our physical needs, like how not knowing what to to do with one's life can make one feel unhappy.
>at some point their wounds heal and they don't have to be miserable with this other person so they leaveThat is if they rely on the other to make them happy. But if both are content they can make each other even happier. They would be happy if they weren't together too, but not as happy as when they are.
>all relationships and marriages I witnessed to be as stable as possible without my methodology were open with the fact people have intrinsic beauty/handsomeness and that the value of such an atribute should not be kept a secret/be degraded because of significant other's inferiority complexOkay, but what does that contribute to the relationship? Or to anything? You can acknowledge that some random passerby looks good, I mean everybody does that. Nobody asks you to find your boyfriend or girlfriend the most attractive there is. But saying things like "that guy/girl is so hot" right in front of them, again why? How does that help anything? Just ill manners as far as I am concerned.
>if happiness is be all end all of what you seek in women you're better of taking drugsThen honestly why would you even be in a relationship if it doesn't make you happy? I can support myself and look after myself just fine, I can find stuff to do that I enjoy too. So why would I want a relationship (which is something serious that comes with many responsibilities) if it doesn't make me happy? It won't always make me happy, but if it barely does then is it worth the effort? I don't think so. Or not necessarily happy but content. If I can't get either from a relationship, only remorse, then I'm definitely better off without.
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