>>16401553>talking about a dead loved one in random spaces is scummy to mei kinda get it, i kinda feel the same way too but that makes me think, what do you think about people that talk about that stuff in formal settings such as interviews or speeches? do you think that's ok? what makes it different?
>>16401614>if u had a perfect schedule for the rest of your life, i think that would just be dull as fuck honestlyyeah i mostly agree, the only contention is where the line is for getting completely absorbed, but also i wonder if it was different than what you describe because it felt more like i had to do it than i wanted to do it, like there's a difference between choosing to immerse yourself in something and getting "consumed" by something, well both are still choices but you get what i mean
>100 hours in a monthyeah could've been way worse, i used to know some of those 130 in 2 week kinda people too, that reminds me of a dude that added me from tf2, he was always a topfragging spy and then he told me he was also basically semi-pro level at dota, he showed me he always got into matches with real pro players. he'd also always send me pics of himself dressed in up in anime costumes and anime masks. we would shitpost back and forth, whenever he sent me those pics i basically called him a weirdo, he always asked if i liked them and i always said no, they were never lewd or anything though. sometimes i'd block him for a day or two because of the pics then unblock him. it felt like i was his only friend. eventually he started sharing stuff from his real life, like about the girl he had a crush on, and apparently he was about to inherit some 20 acre property or something. one day he sent me another anime costume pic and i told him "that's it" and then my plan was i'm gonna block him for like a month. well, after a while i just kinda forgot to unblock him and now it's been years since i last talked to him. pretty shitty, i feel bad about it when i think about it. chrlm
