>>21334581yep, it's all really just the female dating strategy programmed into them by millenia of evolution as the gender that suffers essentially 100% of the suffering and risk of the entire pregnancy-to-childbirth process
kind of how the way a cat hunts seems incredibly cruel and sadistic, when it's just how they evolved to catch prey faster and more vicious than themselves by trapping it and running it to exhaustion before moving in for the kill
