>>19611145Start by reading "Game" by Roosh, it's exactly what you need based on your situation.
>Roosh makes the point that those men who don't learn game will be relegated to working a lot harder in their careers to make themselves more economically attractive. In the current year, this is a highly non-optimal strategy, if your goal is just to get laid making more money won't help that much. Even if you hope to enter a long-term relationship your material success or provider game doesn't help much, especially if you're pursuing relatively empowered women in a cosmopolitan city. 