>>5401395You can work with that. You just need to still be funny when you're like ice. And don't TELL her why you're like ice - just be distant, and make her laugh. She'll let you put it anywhere you like and then get wine drunk on Sundays with her friends, spending all day talking about "why can't (you) just open up..."
Then you'll fuck her again next Friday.
But you gotta mean it, anon. None of this "I'm trying to be cold and distant like the guys in movies" bullshit. None of this being that way then TELLING her why.
That's the final power level - no longer doing ANYTHING - verbally, physically, mentally - because this woman's opinion matters to you. Achieve that, and you'll get whatever you want.