>>4386702Last summer, I met a girl who I just couldn't for the fucking life of me do the math. She would act BEYOND BORED and uninterested in anything I said, never asked any questions about me the way normal people do when they're trying to get to know someone, always met my texts with short, non-committal replies, and then I would get so fucking aggravated, that I would just stop speaking to her.
What's the point? She shows NEGATIVE ZERO interest in me and I feel like I'm bothering her when I try to speak to her, so fuck it. She's not buying what I'm selling.
Then a few days would go by and, out of fucking nowhere, she would text me and say "You've been quiet" and I would think "Yeah and I wonder fucking why? When you treat people like you don't want them around, they tend to fuck off and mind their own business"
But then we'd start talking again and the same thing would happen: She would act like I could have fallen over dead right in front of her and she wouldn't have cared. So, again, I would just fuck off and stop speaking to her. And, again, she would text me after a few days and ask why I was so quiet.
I eventually became so goddamned frustrated that I just told her something like "Look, I'm fine with being your friend, I just don't know HOW to be your friend, I don't know if I'm doing something wrong or if you're frigid to everyone you know, but this isn't working." and I never spoke to her again.
After Christmas, her best friend messaged me on Faceberg asking why we stopped talking. I asked why she gave a fuck and she said she was surprised because she would come home every single day and start telling her how much she wanted me to ask her out and that she even once admitted she thought about me "cumming inside of her".
So yeah, tread carefully, it may not actually be the "friendzone", I learned that the hard way.
