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>be me
>in a long distance relationship, 1y
>girl that was head over heels for me, literally 10/10 qt3.14
>we only met twice before, first time at a new years party where we hit it off, a second time on a date in her city
>ff a week ago
>week-long airbnb planned with a bunch of friends including her
>it's the literal perfect opportunity to be with her
>she lost all interest in me 1 day into it
>she practically ghosts me the entire time
>entire friend group is trying to push her into being with me
>her best friend's trying to kick her out of their room to sleep with me while at the same time hogging her for girl talk
>the most i've done with her is hug her a few times, make out two or three times or chat ONLY during board games/cards
>last day
>we'll probably never see each other until at least summer, if we're lucky
>one last shot
>got drunk, went to her, confessed my love like i never did and asked her if she wanted to do it
>she says no, goes downstairs and immediately tells everybody else
>texts me later "we'll talk tomorrow morning gn"
>the single last thing she ever said to me was bye when i left for my city the following morning
>she didn't even read my "wanna talk?" text (i didn't push it with her further)
>spend the entire evening basically in council with the others about the situation
>her entire friend group's telling me that it's not my fault, i shouldn't feel guilty, there are no hard feelings and that she's been having "mental issues"
>but also
>"don't force it anon"
>"what happened happened, there's nothing you can do about it"
>"there's no need to talk about it"
>"don't pursue the matter further"
what the fuck just happened?
