>>504698019Gen Z here. I really wish I could meet women organically somewhere (maybe even a forced socialisation centre of sorts but named as something else and go from there). Dating apps killed genuine connection. Even gyms force digital IDs, credit cards, constant phone, what happened to just showing up, paying cash, without having to scan some qr code just to enter?
Most men today aren’t cowards they’re paralyzed by how unnatural everything feels. Talking to someone used to be so simple. Now it feels like you're violating some invisible code. Everyone’s staring at screens, filtering themselves to death, and treating real interaction like a threat. Absolute Zog's Nightmare.
I don’t blame incels. I think their feelings are justified. The system changed without telling anyone. No one taught guys how to navigate this version of the world not even your own father's or parents perhaps but the state did at a young age told you.
Want to meet someone organically? Good luck. Hobby clubs are dead. Support groups feel like sanitized diagnosis chambers pushing LGBT on autists. Libraries are gone. Parks are empty apart from millenials and genx taking their kids out. Nightclubs? Whoreish, unationalistic and detestable. Colleges/uni? Maybe—but even there, people are glued to their phones or locked in their own bubbles they somehow formed many months prior.
It shouldn’t be like this. You shouldn’t have to ask “where do I meet people?” That question alone shows how broken things are. Community and Connection should be a given not a riddle.
Money, looks, Work, status none of it matters if the space to connect doesn't exist anymore. What we’ve lost is human proximity, and until we fix that, everything is das facked
