>>2912131sexuality is neither a choice nor is it genetic, it is the latter of what you said in your first meme arrow
for the second part of your post, i put at least, so the number most likely isn't exactly 25%. second, the bear niche isn't exactly into ""overweight, hairy, old men"". in fact, the definition of what counts as a bear is debated often, put the most vague catch-all one is simply a masculine man with body hair. one doesn't have to be old or overweight to be considered a bear. lastly, attraction is highly subjective and instead of saying that anyone who doesn't like what you like is mentally ill, you should talk about that with your therapist