>>22048216not trolling but you can try searching for a co-parent or a becoming a known donor (uncle like role)
modamily, co-parent match, polen tree and other platforms allow for it, facebook groups too (as cringe as it sounds)
I'm looking into that myself so that I won't have to live and bend to please some roastie but be able to have kids, you gotta get your paper up though (I'd imagine)
best of luck man, I'm a bit younger than you and will be taking that path
