>>13339530I’m in the same boat admittedly, I’m in a church that has very few young women in it, and most of the new members are younger men. As I get into thinking about it, I realize how selfish I’m being in the process. Why not spend more time studying, helping the poor, or actually getting to know members of the parish when they speak with me after service? No, I’m spending my time scheming how to get my dick wet and slapping marriage on it in my mind, and less time understanding who Jesus was. I give less than a glance to the more unfortunate, and when the old guy yaks in my ear again during coffee and cookies, I don’t even bother to remember his name and care for him. More than anything, I realize how much I can loathe others my age for “getting more tail” and looking happier because it appears he lives a more secular life. I think over these things and realize how much of a contemptible worm I’m being, just like the self-righteous brother of the prodigal son who got all butthurt he was welcomed back, and why Christians are so often equated with hypocrisy today. Hell, even on /pol/, while I agree with others on here about dealing with demographic change and even the truth in certain stereotypes, I think many of the stated Christians on here are wrong for holding such disregard for the possibility of humanity and love by their self-titled enemies, they’re secretly jealous that these people have more perceived pull now in a society that never “accommodated” them, and they want fairness.
I guess living more for other people who need Christian generosity is the best solution. Even if you’re disenfranchised, people will see the good in you, and people who seek goodness will find their way to you; besides, trying to do good works takes you all sorts of other places than where you are, and give you opportunities that doing nothing or just living to screw and get money will not.
That said, I jerk off a lot too