>>20133579I found that having a long term relationship had the biggest impact too, I really started to improve in the first six months of that. Focus on life even if it feels weird right now and things turn around when you’re less focused on how jarring this is. That’s the basic rule of attraction anyways, like rather than desperation they come when you’re so focused on something like a new career opportunity or sport or working on yourself in other words. I’m not just saying take your mind off it but more like displacing it with greater and new experiences.
