>>7486635Isn't it statistically true that black men are less sought after than white men? I've attached the stats for you; you have the upper hand if you are indeed white.
Also your experience probably depends on what state/city you live in; the average partner count varies from 2 to 12 IIRC depending on location. I strongly suggest moving if you're in a bad location and actually want to find purer romance.
Is your trap interest a porn one or something you'd do/have done IRL?