>>5938432any out of place gender signifier on a hypothetical person makes sex with them gay to a degree. certain signifiers make it gayer than others. a woman with a deep voice for example isn’t as gay as a woman with a dick. the dick serves a purpose, and the purpose is penetration. you desiring to be penetrated is a gay desire. even if a perfectly normal woman penetrated you, that would be a gay act, and would make you bisexual. the fact that you want a woman to actually have a penis so you can feel the real deal in your rectum is undeniably gay. you are at best bisexual and at worst in denial