>>13267120Like most women you seem to be making the mistake of thinking that your personality has much of an impact in the chances you have with men. Men choose based on appearance first and foremost, if you can't get your appearance to be attractive enough your next best option is to be extremely submissive, caring and kind to any males you can get to sleep with you in the hopes they will get comfy and stay with you. Hope this helps. We can't do anything about white women for you here, that battle is a lost cause.
