>>1275592562 year oldfag here, I dodged a bullet with the first woman I wanted to marry; she was into career, didn't want kids, and was focused on the two of us 'helping each other in our careers' and wanted us to have jobs that had potential for "advancement" and lots of travel; praise God I got out that relationship. As of today, she's been divorced three times and is known as a 'wine aunt'. Yeeeeesh. Choose wisely, young ones.