>>226412620>>8723836That's because "cute" invokes a different level of brain reaction than "hot." Fear is generally at the same "base" level as sex, which is why some ethnicities can be thugs and invoke that primal fear reaction in women and them side-step into sexual reactions.
Average looking asian guys aren't going to put much fear into tall nordic women. You'd do better with women that are comfortable at a higher level of brain activity, but those are of course rare.