>>8642986i was definitely more of a schlub a while ago, had good intentions and a genuine optimistic outlook. then i just stopped caring, drank a bit, regained copmsure and effectively limited my drinking, now im back to simply being apathetic towards finding a wife. i never pretended about "game" or picking up chicks, i legitimately wanted to date. now i just see single mothers everywhere and it turns me off from looking further, however nonsensical that may be.