>>17263725>Do you feel like all these things are helping you in achieving yourself? Or do they feel like some sort of "work" you have to go through, so to say, just to fulfill the duties you believe are important to you?Yes, they're my reason d'etre. The Dharma changed my outlook on life and made an enduring man out of my dangerously possessive and spiteful mindset. Without it i would still be trapped in the cycle of attachment and lost in the darkness of ignorance. I wish to become a monk even though that won't disqualify me from marrying and having kids.