>>22691884He was popular in school and the positive reinforcement snowballed him into the successful person he is today. People like you and I who got unlucky in our formative years can't just turn our shit around and forget the decades of negative reinforcement that had been thrown in our faces.
>How do i become a beacon of positivity and a social butterfly?Build a time machine, go back to 6 years old and make many friends in school. Hang out and go on extracurricular trips with your friends, and don't take school too seriously. If applicable, choose new parents that aren't helicopter parents or straight up neglectful. Experience the lows and highs of teenage love and the lasting impacts physical and emotional intimacy has on your psyche. Get your first part time job as a teenager and experience financial freedom. Brush off your parents saying they're proud of you because you're just too cool for that. Drive around with your friends late into the night on a school night without a care in the world. Develop strong male bonds with your teammates of whatever sport you choose to play. Go fishing and hunting with your father.
Man it's crazy how many developmental milestones I missed out on in my adolescence. People who experienced these things will say that they don't really matter but they don't understand the profound impact these things have on the mind.
I'm a 22yo balding manlet minimum-wage wagie. Not even my own family likes me, I can see the resentment and disappointment in their eyes when I interact with them. My only purpose in this world is to make others richer at the expense of my own health. It never even began.
